{"id":260,"date":"2015-01-18T23:21:35","date_gmt":"2015-01-19T04:21:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.uml.edu\/india-uml-bvb\/?p=260"},"modified":"2015-01-18T23:21:55","modified_gmt":"2015-01-19T04:21:55","slug":"standing-out-and-talking-to-people-who-want-to-tack-your-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.uml.edu\/india-uml-bvb\/2015\/01\/18\/standing-out-and-talking-to-people-who-want-to-tack-your-money\/","title":{"rendered":"standing out and talking to people who want your money."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>so, again these are being posted after i got back due to internet troble. now, I am very tall, Irish, and have a red beard. this is not normal for India. also im still not good at titles.<\/p>\n<p>This is a bit of an odd topic, but the amount that Americans stand out here is staggering. In the USA unless you\u2019re on fire most people don\u2019t pay attention to you. I am rather tall, with a red beard. People took pitchers of or with me in the streets, some waved hello, others gave dirty looks. India has a large population, of mostly Indian people. Some of the people we crossed paths with either could not comprehend someone of fair skin was around, or that I had some sort of disorder.<br \/>\nI find it very strange to be stared at, and in fact dislike it heavily. It did not help that our bus had a large tourist sing on it, so pan handlers would come up and ask for money for nick knacks or whatever. I will say I don\u2019t mind tipping someone who has done a good job, but I was harassed by workers because they knew that to be here I needed some capital. One of the guys, who was trying to sell me some sort of elephant figurine insisted that I had cash after I told him I did not. I wanted him to go away, but I am very bad at this. When the Indian students are around this happens a lot less. I believe that because we are fourin, they try to tack advantage of us. For instance the car ride to the hotel I currently sit in at an airport was told to be a 15 rupee ride by the coordinator however many of the rickshaws where trying to gorge us at 350. I don\u2019t think if they think we are stupid or jest exploitable. I think my concern for people puts me as a target for this, as I was asked it far more than others on the trip. I think it is because I talk to people if thay ask something rather then immediately dismissing them.<br \/>\nI will however say, no matter where in the world I am, I cannot stand bathroom attendance. I\u2019ve come across a few in India and they are just as bad. They go into a bathroom, pull out all the tissue paper and black the door until you give them money. Many seem to not speak English ether but fully understand you if you produce cash.<br \/>\nI would feel bad about the panhandlers too if we were not told that the poor here are given free school, clothing, and supply\u2019s if they send their children to education. I fell very badly for these kids that are pan handling on the side of the road, but handing them cash will only further the problem.<br \/>\nSomeone tried to pick my pocket in the Taj mahal in fact, however I keep my wallet in side pockets, and thus they ended up jest grabbing my ass for about 3 very confusing seconds. The crowd would not let me turn around to see who, and they were jest a face in the crowd after.<br \/>\nMy trip had very few issues with interacting with the local people once we were with the Indian students. I think this is partly in due to the fact that English is a second language here, and we speak much faster than some can understand. I am paranoid of crowds, but this had made me appreciate how much space Boston people give one another.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>so, again these are being posted after i got back due to internet troble. now, I am very tall, Irish, and have a red beard. this is not normal for India. also im still not good at titles. 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